author: "Jugglar"
date: Tue 9 Jan 2001 23:17 GMT
website: www.charismarts.com
subject: Story-telling theory ...Conveying traits that flip her attraction switches without making it obvious that you're doing so demonstrates higher value and generates attraction ...
When you tell a story, it doesn't have to be overtly impressive. In fact, it's better if it's not some amazing story, because you don't want the target to think you're trying to impress her. As long as the story is fun, interesting, and, most important, captures the attention of her group, it will work. These sorts of stories are most congruent if they are at least partially true and based on events from your own life.
Conveying traits that flip her attraction switches without making it obvious that you're doing so demonstrates higher value and generates attraction.
For example, in a story it's possible to flip both the "leader of men" and "protector of loved ones" attraction switches by congruently adding something like "... so I told him I have no choice, it's my little sister. So he jumps in the car, 'cause you know my friends are there for me one hundred percent and I'm the same way for them; that's just how we are...." The preselection switch and others can be similarly flipped also.
