I have the reputation of hooking up with chicks , all the time( some ppl who are virgins in my class, literally HATE me, although they never show it).
So i pued this chick once, and she is associated her one of the virgins i'm talking with. immediate, DLV. the virgin chick told her all sorts of BS( me being a player ) and killed all my social proof.SO that hb flaked on me a couple of times, and she got a job as a nurse! Last time i talked to her over the phone, she was unsure whether she wanted to meet me, and never wanted to go out with me for lunch.
Now I followed Mystery's bait , hook, reel, release, to regenerate attraction and called the same girl after two weeks. fluff talk, etc etc....then i thought..wtf..do it..i never try to re hook up but i'm bored today , so fuck it..i'll try getting her to come for lunch.
the BAIT: me: so hb, you are a nurse, is it..is that what you wanted to be..(get her to tell you some of her hobby or where she works.something you got 'impressed' with) HOOk: she immediately acknowledged and told me how MUCH she loves nursing and how she used to be judgemental before she was a nurse and how she is NOT judgemental ..etc..
REEL: ME:..that is simply awesome. i like nurses . they are genuinely good ppl, and very good natured. They have qualities like kindness and forgiveness, etc...and they dress 'sexy'( i dont give a shit in real life)
RELEASE: ME:you know, I know you make a wonderful nurse, but in my case, it NEVER WORKS with nurses! they are wonderful people but i have this strange feeling that nurses could become overnice , and lose thrill in life. you will change alot, i know. I think i'll have to stop talking to you for a while. OMG. this made her qualify herself like crazy. as a result: she is taking me to the MOST expensive restaurant for lunch and she is paying for EVERYTHING(i usually get chicks to pay, just for fun..and they LOVE it).. i told her that i will sms her to remind her and she asked me to do that and also 'she CANNOT forget'.
Credit to PlayboyNZ
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In it's most distiled interpretation it is getting her to earn you, she is literally meeting your "qualification" for women, thus qualifying.
Phrases like, "Don't take me for a fool, you're sex appel means nothing, beautyis common, what else do you have?" and "Stop. Wait, before I even say another word to you, this conversation can't go on, prove to me that you're not boring, I don't have time for boring people, tell me something you've done or give me something cool, show me your not boring."
Make women qualify themselves, both of those are very blatant, she is literally going to list qualifications, there are other ways of doing this but makingher earn you is the quintessence, the nucleus if you will, of the concept.
Credit to Vincent Chase
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1. "What's the most exciting thing you've ever done?"
2. "What are your talents/specialties/what makes you unique?"
3. "If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be and why?"
4. "If there is one thing that you could do for the rest of yor life, what would it be?"
5. "What's something wierd about you?" (They tend to not answer this one as much)
6. "What do you do for fun, (besides school/work)?"
7. "What's a significant event in your life?"
Credit to cummingpowdera