How To Compel Women To See You As A Sausage With Feet

I've packed some powerful Push-Pull concepts and techniques into this article.

(If you don't know what Push-Pull is, read this article in its entirety. Every guy I know who's amazing with women uses some form of Push-Pull - even if he's not consciously aware of it. If you're NOT currently using Push-Pull, there's a very good possibility using it could mushroom your current success with women).

Question & Success Story:

To the genuine Dr. of Attraction,

I have read your ebook cover-to-cover and keep going back to it for reference. I've tried a lot of other ebooks, cds, dvds etc and wish I'd found your ebook first. From your book I realized that EVERY time I have got the girl, it has been because I have framed myself as the PRIZE.

Success story: The *one* super hot girl in my department(computing!) was sitting behind me in the lecture hall. The seats have a gap at the bottom and she 'accidentally' touched my arse with her foot:

ME "Can you stop touching my arse please? If you want to touch me, tell me a funny joke or an interesting story first, I'm not just a sausage with feet!"

She had a split second of shock on her face before bursting out laughing and giggling with her friends periodically for the rest of the lecture. I turned back cool as you like to continue taking notes. As I left the lecture theatre she was walking behind me with her friends:

ME "can you stop stalking me please? I mean all I know about you is that you have good fashion taste, so I forgive you but you should at least introduce yourself"

HER "ok, I'm ..."

ME "ok ..., I'm off now but you can give me your number"

HER "ok" (writes number)

Long story short: We are now buddies of the fornication variety.

Question: I have no problems with women when I am alone and all they have to judge me on is how I act with them. However, my male friends are natural leaders where I am not and if women see this it drops my PRIZABILITY. I am wondering what meta-frame I should set to be the leader I am with my girl and my friends?

The sausage with feet,

N.B, Manchester, UK.

Swinggcat's comments:

Consider yourself lucky to have natural leader friends. A woman isn't gonna stop feeling attraction toward you because your friends are natural leaders. Or think you're any less of a man. If anything, having natural leader friends will increase your value in a woman eyes. It's called "social proof."

Word of Caution: If a woman notices you acting different around your friends or witnesses your friends disrespecting you, any attraction she felt risks being put to its demise. Fried in the electric chair to cinders. If your friends don't respect you, my advice, get some new ones.

On another note: You, my friend, have mutated yourself into a walking, talking sausage with feet. And have helped pound the myth "computer guys can't get beautiful women" into jelly. Good job. Give yourself a pat on the back.

"I have read your ebook cover-to-cover and keep going back to it for reference."

I've gotten a lot of emails from guys telling me they read my book cover-to-cover and through putting into practice the tools they learned, their success with women exploded beyond what they use to think was possible. Then months later they went back to my book as a reference guide to improve on specific skill sets and sticking points, resulting in their success with women ballooning to an even higher level.

"From your book I realized that EVERY time I have got the girl, it has been because I have framed myself as the PRIZE."

Me too. That's why I wrote a book on it. I've noticed that genuine success with women is next to impossible without compelling the woman to FEEL you're the Prize. Most guys agree with me on this. The problem is: How do You establish yourself as the Prize when interacting with women? Looks and money? I suppose these things could help.