Rule 4. This is cliche as well, but anchor the fulfillment of the need to (guess who?) to you! For example Isn't it nice if you could experience all of that with me, now I think it would be real grand if you could!
Keep doing that a couple of times and son enough you'll be her perfect man.
Example: One woman I was not really seducing leaked out that she misses her father (who died long ago). I then took that tack and talked about how good it feels to be a little girl sitting on daddy's lap and embracing him, and asking for the small gifts like a pony or things like that. Goshit worked. But it would have even been better to ask her what her father was like, to ask for small cues, like how her father talked, what he used to say to her, what did he make her feel and etc etc. Then, using that information and your power of acting, subtly transform yourself into her daddy. It might seem sneaky and underhanded to use her own desires to dangle the carrot she's always wanted but lets frame it this way - we're just finding out what can make a person happy and giving it to them.
Seducer Romancer these guys are the guys who know how to please, aim to please and live to please (though this does not imply supplication- no woman ever wanted a man she could easily control). These guys are the guys who know how to fill a need. Everyone, and I mean everyone, has a hole. Fill it. (Now did I detect some double meaning in that last statement or am I just completely corrupt?)
