The point of eliciting values

(Taken from Sweep women off their feet Do not try to create a market for your product just because you think it's a great product. Find a product that the market demands and you will be successful. Fill a need and you can't go wrong.

NYC: (Eliciting values so as to really make her think and fetch those answers from deep within her) is one of the major differences that will get you noticed. MOST guys go so did you have both of your parents and she says no and they say look there's a movie playing wanna go?. They ask questions that don't tell them ANYTHING about the chick and then ask them out in effect, they are fucking up their FLUFFING because they are NOT distinguishing her from any other chick, although they THINK they are.

Learning about her as a person is much deeper than light questioning, and the thing that turns chicks on the most is when they BELIEVE that you are into them because of some UNIQUENESS that they have. Something you see in them ONLY that you don't see in other women and which makes them extremely attractive to you. They think that men that are attracted ONLY to bodies are dogs, etc. By your deeper questioning, you seperate yourself from the other suitors because you make them THINK. You make them DIG for answers. They FEEL differently after baring their soul to you than after telling you where they got their hair done and how much it cost.

NYC: I go back to childhood and find out what they missed out on or wanted. I find out what they want now and what they desire for their futures. I cover EVERYTHING then I CRAFT the VESSEL I need to get into her. I make MYSELF a COMBINATION of all the things that she doesn't know she craves. There is NO RESISTANCE to this. NONE! She can't resist because all she knows is that I am talking about some abstract ideas or another woman and it strikes a chord within her that's exactly how I want to be treated by a man that's exactly what I want in a man Is this guy for real? what she doesn't know is that she TOLD ME HOW TO SEDUCE HER and I have embedded this knowledge inside my language and STAY ON COURSE. I bombard her with good feelings and ALWAYS avoid bad feelings. When I do my work, I may not get laid, but I am NEVER FORGOTTEN!

Everyone has a need.

Find and fill that need, an explanation by Jobet Claudio, Mindlist:

In my observation, the mere adoption of the following rules can supercharge your own attitude towards being a great seducer.

Rule 1. People, all people, to include supercelebrities and ultra-gorgeous women, have desires. That seems like stating the obvious, but think about it. Even Bill Gates I bet, wishes he could do something different, that would fulfill him and he's not getting it now. He aches for something craves for something That's the same with ultra-gorgeous women, or women in general. They may have an army of suitors, they may be sleeping on the finest velvet sheets, etc etc. But believe me, all people, gorgeous women included, ache for something. They have a heartfelt desire for something. That something may vary from adventure to feeling freedomm, to feeling respected (for the less secure ones), to feeling pampered, to feeling like a little girl again. It can be a large variety of things. But make no mistake about it. Everyone aches for something.

Rule 2. And this is cliche'. Find out what it is. Be sensitive. You can pick this up in the small cues that she leaks out. Be intelligent in structuring your questions to be such that you can uncover nice pieces of datAnswer: What you're looking for is something that she always wanted that she's not getting right now, something she aches for, but can't have due to some life circumstance or something like that. It can be anything. Once you know what it is, you can either you fill the void by using language patterns or transform yourself into the person that fits that criteria or desire or longing.

Rule 3. Fill that void that you've found. Use linguistic patterns to achieve this. If she talks about the need for respect, say something like what if we were living in a different dimension or a different planet and in that planet everything you see, is everything you want to see and in that place you see all the people, giving you all the respect you ever wanted now doesn't that feel nice?