Cocky&funny comments and themes I

Using humor is golden. "If you get ‘em laughing, the rest is easy".

The best approach is using humor combined with a bit of cockiness, to flirt with them while teasing them. This sends all the right signals. In effect, it tells a woman, "I'm not intimidated by you and your beauty doesn't scare me. In fact, I'm so comfortable around you that I can even make fun of you in a friendly way."

Although David DeAngelo recommends keeping a serious face while doing C&F, I've found that a slight hint of sarcasm and a smirk along with the comment has more of an impact. It also makes you look like you're playful, and it doesn't paint you as an a**hole.

Some examples of C&F:

Reach your hand out to help her out of your car or something. Hold her hand for a second longer than pull it away, saying " Hey, no hand-holding this early"

Tells you about a club or hangout she goes to: " It can't be that cool" (why not?) "Because I've never heard of it".

" Look, just because you're being sweet to me doesn't mean I'm going to sleep with you. You thought I was THAT easy? Come on!"

(with women at work or women working somewhere) "How can you possibly get any work done when you're flirting with me all the time? I know I'm a stud and all but if you lose your job, don't think I'm going to support you!"

(after seeing a woman) "I know we had fun, but please don't become a stalker and call me 50 times a day"

(how are you?) " Well, I've been told I'm pretty damn good!"

(If she makes fun of herself) Her: " I'm such a retard" or "My hair looks awful" or " My lipstick doesn't look good does it?"

You: " Well, I didn't want to say anything!"

OR

Her: " My hair looks bad doesn't it?"

You: " You can say that again!" (with a playful tone)

" I have to go and get ready." (where are you going?) " You're taking me for a drink" .

Her: "Does my hair look better up or down?"

You: " It looks bad both ways"

Her: "HEY!" *punch* etc..

"You can keep being cold, but I know that deep down, you love me."

"Come on, have you sat down with a SEXIER man than ME today? Be honest."

" You don't get a chance like this everyday...to hang out with a hot guy like ME."

(What kind of woman do you respect?) "Ones that don't ask a lot of questions."

(asks you what your plans are for X day) "NO, you CAN'T take me to Vegas and marry me!" Can lead to Vegas Wedding role-play.

"Wow, that's an ugly shirt/ skirt etc. How long til the bet wears off?" (HEY!) "That's what happens when you get high before you go shopping"

(How's your love life?) "Have you ever heard of James Bond? You get the idea." OR (So, are you seeing anyone special?) "What do you mean by "special?" No, I wouldn't call any of them

" special" ... unless you're talking about not being the sharpest tool in the shed... in that case, yes, I'm seeing a couple of 'special' women."

(Goes to hug you) " Look at you, you're all over me!"

" Does it upset you to be walking with such a sexy man because nobody is looking at you, and everyone's looking at me?"