Using Mirroing to avoid being fearful II

Some anchors are universal an innate like when all babies around the world smile they feel happy. Other anchors are created over a lifetime.

Now about books... There are no books in existance for what I know...

There is one book by an author that has similiar conventions:

Book is: Monsters and Magical Sticks: There's no such thing as hypnosis

BY: Steven Heller & Terry Steele

This an easy book to read compared to Erickson's original works. I recommend both just to get the feel of things.
-Orgasmatron

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Malibu04-03-2006, 11:00 PM
excellent Post. if I could add something about mirroring on a different note. During comfort as you have said mirroring is good to build comfort.

However in attract phase it is good to reverse mirror. this is discussed in Thundercats Art of Approaching. When you open a set...how many times have you seen a girl fold her arms or cross her legs...sit upright etc etc etc...this is all part of negative body language...do you mirror her?...no...do the opposite of what she is doing...opn legs slightly...lean back and comfortable slouching slightly..arms open and wave them around if you want.

What does this do...it pulls her into your frame and opens her up...then when your in comfort...mirroring takes charge as orgasmatron original post.
cheers

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orgasmatron04-05-2006, 06:20 PM
Orgasmatron here with more PUA Crack for those who need it.

90% of the game is played in the C stage- Mystery

Why?

We are heard animals and scared animals.

We feel safer in a heard.

We look for non-threatening friends for our heard.

We look for safe people.

We are always broadcasting anchors to others.

The whole purpose of our broadcasting anchors is to find other people who are sympathetic towards us and to be safe with.

People do this everyday looking for safe people.

We suspect any person we don't know.

Constant fear and threat assesements are being made by people.

We find patterns that are safe to function in.

We find people to have patterns with.

This is done in order to avoid being fearful.

Ex: on the second day of a new class you sit in the same place you sat in the first day of class.

Ex: A woman moves to a new city she needs to have new friends to feel safe from fear.

We have a whole gland dedicated to one emotion: FEAR

This is why mirroring in C stage Orgasmatron style is necessary and effective.

Field Mission Validation Time!

1. Go to a bookstore.

2. Sitdown within the field of vision of your target at a right angle. You must be in their line of sight unblocked by anything.

3. Don't look at her. Read her anchors with your peripheral vision.

4. Pick out an anchor just one anchor she has. Ex: jerks her foot, Blink rate, Facial expressions. lifts her drink to her mouth.

5. Transmit this one anchor ( Ex. Foot Jerking) back to her once every 2 minutes for a period of 6 to 10 minutes. Do not contaminate your transmition. You must remain totally still while transmitting her anchor back to her. You can move somewhat during the non transmition periods.

6. After 6 to 10 minutes of this, test is she follows one of your own anchors.Ex: Raise shoulder once.

7. See if she reponds to your anchor. Wait a few minutes to get your response. If she does not repeat process.

You are basically following her and getting her to follow you ( Your anchor) if you fail to lead your target you will get a stalker instead. Be careful.

What should happen is that your target opens you " don't I know you from somewhere?"

Already in C stage.

Or you can go and open her. Does not matter what she looks like. Supermodel etc...