Using Mirroing to avoid being fearful I

author:         "Orgasmatron"
date:            Mon, 3 May 2006 19:23:00 GMT
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subject:        Using Mirroing to avoid being fearful I ...Unfortunately this method is barely touching the surface of what it trully can be. This can be the most powerful method for generating...

This post is for all people who use mirroring during comfort stage.

The purpose of physically mirroring a woman is to escalate the emotions of trust and comfort.

Unfortunately this method is barely touching the surface of what it trully can be. This can be the most powerful method for generating trust and comfort by using your body.

The current method of mirroring using NLP to create trust and comfort has not been explained in detail plus the explanation on how to do it is not very clear.

So instead I am introducing my way of mirroring, I will use the NLP vocabulary to try to describe what I do and to make things easier to understand.

So, we have 3 brains Human Brain, Mammalian Brain, Reptillian Brain.

A very long time ago we did not have a Human Brain but a Mammalian brain. We did not have spoken language but we used our bodies to communicate basic emotions and messages to each other.

Today we still have animals that use their body language to communicate with each other.

We on the other hand have a Human brain and we talk to each other. But guess what, your Mammalian Brain has a conversation with every person you walk by every day without you being aware of it.

As you walk by a person your Mammalian Brain says hello as you walk by a total stranger.

The message of hello is a body anchor that is transmitted by you and vice versa. You had a conversation just as if you said verbally hello and the person responded by saying hello.

But the conversation happend with an exchange of body anchors.

For example you can have multiple anchors for the word "yes".

Ask a person the same question that they would answer yes to. You can pick up multiple physical body anchors for the word yes. Each person has their own innate and custom anchors that have been created over time.

So the problem with mirroring using the NLP is that you are physically mirroring body movents ( Body Anchors) but you don't know what emotional states they represent.

Lets take a trip back to grade school. Remember just before two boys starting to fight?

Boy1: One boy would stand tall and trust out his chest while swinging his arms back.

Boy2: Then the other boy would do the same thing.

Boy1: Now the first boy who initiated the chest thrust pushes with both hands the other boy.

Boy2: The boy that has been pushed pushes back

Now the fists start to fly and the fight is on.

What you have seen is an escalation of anger using body anchors.

This is what mirroring is all about.

There is no such thing as rapport.... there is sending and receiving.

But you must first identify which anchors you want to transmit and not transmit anchors that have emotional states that you do want to escalate.

You can have a woman that is having a bad day and she is transmitting bad emotional state anchors and if you mirror her you will escalate her bad emotional state. You are thinking rapport and she is getting worst.

So if you notice a hot woman laughing and happy make note of her anchors and be ready to transmit them during C stage. If she is pissed at some AFC don't use any of the anchors she is transmitting because those anchors are bad emotional state anchors.