How to build comfort

Now onto color. Color is amazingly influential, why do you think McDonalds sign is Red and Yellow? Yellow subconsciously calms you and red makes you hungry. THOSE BASTARDS, Right? Well learn a lesson from marketing. Just by wearing earthy or cool colors you telegraph a more inviting aura. But don't take my word for it read this actual quote from an actual newspaper:

"Color can have such a strong influence on behavior, that some city jails have painted their cells pink because of its calming effect on rowdy inmates."

Don't believe me, look it up on Google! Now while I'm not so sure that pink calmed themdown, so much as it's impossible to look bad-ass caged in pink cement I am certain thatcolor is dangerously powerful at influencing minds subliminally. I've already written on thisso I'll reproduce it below:

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Subliminal things that build comfort are earthy and cool colors (Bounce to a lounge with brown leathers or blue walls, or on the second date wear something green or sienna.) and smooth, constant, slower and relax speech. When you are building comfort do not wear any peacock material, this will transmit to her mind subliminal that you are "off the market" for her and that you aren't trying to impress her, which of course you are.

Now you see why I mentioned the Cigar lounge earlier. Generally they are decorated with Neutral and earthy tones, this is a great environment for building comfort, wearing a cool color (Green or Blue) will allow you to pop out while also being calming. Generally these lounges have live music, but it tends to be on the more Muzac, easy listening scale which is suitable more for comfort building, they usually have a bar and serve foods and the banter of people is also welcomed for comfort. It's best to sit it arm chairs out in the open and sip on some water until the food arrives, then move to a more secluded booth.

Lastly I will mention physical rapport. One of the most powerful and subliminal things you can do is match your breathing patterns and eye movements, she shifts her gaze to your mouth so you shift yours to hers, she sighs, so do you, etc… Also, copying is useful to a degree, repeat phrases she says, especially clichés, and match her actions, don't mirror everything she does, but when she drinks so do you, when she bites (situation permitting) so do you. Speaking or mirroring, Now is as good a time as any to mention that mirrors are uncomfortable in social settings (unless you or her are narcissistic.) They detract from "the moment" and reminder her that she is "there" forcing her to pay more attention to her mannerisms, thus distracting her from you. So, general rule of thumb avoid places with lot' s of mirrors.

That's just about all the material I have, I leave you with this piece of parting. If you find your self in a debate, you are losing comfort rapidly, debating is terrible! That isn't to say you can't disagree, by all means you should but if you enter a debate you lose rapport and commonality as well as it wastes valuable time that could be used gaming, good advice, disagree without being disagreeable.