Moving on, let us talk about appropriation. First off, it is important to know what her expectations are and what she wants to experience in order to treat her appropriately. You must constantly be assessing the situation and calibrating it, this is valuable in identify "undesirables" such as gold diggers and etc… early on so you can drop them or adjust. Things to look for? Like stated earlier, ethnicity. You're not going to game an Asian-American in America the same you would an Japanese Girl in Japan. Age is a large factor as well, speaking with a 29 year old is vastly different, in most cases, than with a 19 year old. Lastly, IMO, is social class, Ritchie Rich OC gets treated differently than MS. sub-lower class Minnesota girl, not better, not worse DIFFERENT and that's important to understand, you must always adjust to class. Obviously People more accustomed to a higher standard of living are going to respond to decadence where a person of lower class will respond similarly, most likely, with much less demonstrating of "wealth. Of course wealth doesn't mean just money, keep that in mind there boys, I'm no Count of Monte Cristo, I'm Edward Dantes.
On a more subliminal note, let me talk about setting. Let's start with music and background noise, generally speaking the louder a venue the more unsuitable it is for comfort building, however, it should be noted that music of any kind is more comfortable than none. I suggest a cigar lounge (more on that later) or a nice jazz club, or really any place with a more relaxed setting than a club or bar. Additionally, when isolated with a girl it makes her more comfortable when she can hear people or sounds relating to people (i.e. cars , telephones ringing, etc…) I first discovered this at a restaurant around St. Pete Beach, Fla. Where they close the booths around you, placing you in some sort of dome. I was sitting across the table from the girl but I could tell she was uncomfortable so I asked her, "What's the matter?" and she told me that it was awkward being somewhere that no one would be able to hear her scream." She smiled afterwards but it struck a chord in me and I jotted that down in my head-notes. So I cracked the sliding doors open a bit and she actually de-tensed, "Don't worry, I never kill on the first date." Next up for sub.lims. Is food. No doubt you've heard the phrase "Comfort Food" before, but I'll bet you've never really given it any thought. We'll I've developed a 2nd day system that works great at building comfort. Think back, ever seen "Groundhogs Day" with Bill Murray? Remember when he spends three days or so trying to find out what Andie Mac Dowel is drinking at the bar? Why does he do that, well to have a commonality, to build rapport. When you're out with a woman you should pay attention to the food and drink that she orders. Additionally I like to ask a questionnaire during qualifying. I say "Are you ready for the Lightening Round?" and ask a mixture of funny and serious questions really fast, like: "Who would you want to high five, alive or dead?
What's cuter a puppy or a baby rabbit?Do you enjoy long walks on the beach?How about candle lit dinners and Shakespeare?Do you like plays?How many bones have you broken?What's your favorite food?Mayo or Miracle Whip?If you bore my children, would YOU choose Jiff?If I have twelve toes, what is the circumference of Ecuador?
HA! I got you! The Circumference of Ecuador is… Ramen and a Half!"
Then later I can use some of her answers against her, for example, the 2nd day I‘ll takeher to a restaurant and order Crème Brule, You see, chances are, she won't remembertelling me her favorite food and will be surprised when I order it and BA-DANG you justbuilt some more comfort.DOUBLE BONUS: Even if the girl catches you, this happened last month, you'll still gaincomfort. Why you may ask? BECAUSE YOU REMEMBERED! It's that easy.
