How to build comfort

This wil help you build comfort and rapport, not only in sensual environments as well but ineveryday social interactions too.Normally I wouldn't start a thread, I much prefer the idea of giving advice based onsomeone's beck or request, however , I've seen a lot of people talking about their stickingpoint being building comfort. I decided to give a few tips about comfort creation that I useALL THE TIME, if something isn't field tested by me personally I'll say so, always. Thatbeing said, this is dedicated to "broke ballin" (read his thread here: http://mysterymethod.com/forum/showthread.php?t=4101) he asked for more info so here goes.

So you've mastered your approach, great. You've managed to get her interested, thatway my sticking point. You've even managed to telegraph to her that you're attracted but,now you're ready to shift from attraction to comfort and you don't know how! Well here aresome tip's that I've gathered and use myself.

Part of building comfort is demonstrating rapport and conveying commonalities. One of the things you should be doing during the attraction phase is gathering information about her, most people don't do this. You must use her responses as fodder, as fuel to strengthen your game with her. Think of it as incorporating personal artifacts so as to custom tailor each sarge to the individual being sarged. Let me reproduce an example I give on using information taken from a hypothetical target against her in the sarge:

"Let me ask you something, if you were all alone in a locked room and your cell phone only had the battery power for one phone call, who's your first choice?

Your Mom? Oh I totally feel that, why your mom?

(she'll tell you a reason but most likely it won't be the underlying, true one: she won't tell you that her father was an alcoholic and she always admired her Moms strength.)

Then based on her reasons and what you can extrapolate for other lines of conversation you can tell her about a time that your mom did something for you and ever since that day you have valued your mother even more and placed her in a high esteem. Continue building verbal rapport using stories that indicate that you share similar views and opinions and if you find something that you strongly disagree on, disagree without being disagreeable."

Do you see how one take information and, on the spot, use it to telegraph to the targetthat you "understand" her, that you "know who she is" all that a-typical bull crap thatwomen say they're looking for.

"I just want a guy that GETS me"

Women want this type of rapport, and the great thing is it's mostly subliminal. I give some great examples of using extracted materials here: http://mysterymethod.com/forum/showt...=Vincent+Chase

Another subset I want to hit on is personal space. This VERY important when it comes to comfort. In fact it is quite possibly the thing she will most notice, and will make her uncomfortable, that isn't to say it's the most important however. During the comfort building stage you DO want to be closer, however, it is important to remember that being in close proximity of a stranger can be unsettling. There are also other physical factors such as positioning. (This is why we approach indirectly, interestingly enough we are building comfort here even before we open.)