A method on building Rapport

After I convey value, I move to building rapport.. This is like a coal-train that has to be fueled.. I pump them more and more with rapport..

However, unlike conveying higher-value, I try to EASE her into it. This results in not coming off as one of those guys who wants to be "deep" *all the time*, and disarms any thoughts that she has that I'm messing with her, since the convo builds and builds.. It's very natural that way, and I also enjoy it more myself.

Initiate playful kino, non-stop, so that the kino boundary is SET as NORMAL. Normalize the kino, or even play the kiss-game variation early in the C&F phase of the sarge (not relating to this post, as this is the earlier stuff).

1) light rapport

2) medium rapport

3) heavy rapport

LIGHT RAPPORT:

- short vital stats thread (name/age/work/school/background)

- upbeat stories (friends / cute anecdotes / feel good stories / jokes / humour / show that you can be easy going)

- fun reads such as Ring Finger pattern, if done more as a routine than a nuclear pattern (RF pattern can also be a nuclear bomb used in heavy rapport, if done don-juanish, not just out of fun-interest)

MEDIUM RAPPORT:

- childhood regressions, how they felt

- finding commonalities

- exploring philosophies

- CUBE

- insecurities / vulnerabilities

HEAVY RAPPORT:

- YES Ladder

- PREV (pre-researched EV, triusms, etc.. see separate post)

- rather than E.V., I study the female psyche, and use the 'truisms' idea to discuss ideas that convey that I am the perfect man.. I am not like other guys, and convey that the problems that they had in past relationships won't happen with me, through the 'truisms' discussion

- Instant connection pattern / transition to Love vs. Attraction pattern

- STACK and associate types of connections.. create massive yes-ladder, and then get her saying 'yes, yes, yes' to all your comments about connections, until you can draw the similarity between PHYSICAL and EMOTIONAL connections

- REFRAME physical connections as simply a DIFFERENT brand of connection, but still a *LEGITIMATE* connection.

- natural woman pattern

- implicit idea that you and her are *ON* comes across, playful kino escalates

- SEDUCE.

By Tyler Durden