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What ANNOYS Women, and What ATTRACTS Them

No, I'm serious.

Well, here's the BIG REALIZATION that I had... I've now realized that I had it all wrong.

Instead of thinking to myself that I was a nice, sensitive guy that needed to become a little stronger, what I really needed was to become a strong guy who could also act sensitive on occasion.

The difference seems almost like word-play, but it's not. Not at all.

You see, when a woman says that she wants a "strong guy who's also sensitive", that's what she MEANS.

She wants a guy who's STRONG. The sensitive part is far more "optional" than the STRONG part.

This is why women often date jerks and guys who are emotionally unavailable, and don't date us "nice guys" who would do anything for them.


Women do not sit down and make a list of the qualities that a particular guy has, then think it over for a few days, then DECIDE whether or not to FEEL ATTRACTION.


It happens in an INSTANT, and it happens for all kinds of "illogical" reasons... reasons that even the woman who is feeling it can't usually describe.

So what's the answer here?

The answer here is to realize that many of the things you do when you're around women that you feel attracted to are considered ANNOYING by those women.

You must understand that you sometimes have to do things that SEEM to be "inconsiderate" in order to give a woman what she REALLY wants (which is a man who is in control of himself, the situation, and often her).

Raise your right hand, and repeat after me... "I will stop being a Wussy around women." "I will stop being a Wussy around women." "I will stop being a Wussy around women."

Stop doing things that say "I'm a Wussy", because those are the very things that women find ANNOYING.

And START doing the things that you're learning here.

Lean back. Act Cocky & Funny around women. Bust on them and give them a hard time. And LEAD the way, don't follow.

NOW, if you REALLY want to take a trip "behind the scenes" and hear me describe EXACTLY how to develop into the kind of man that women find "naturally attractive" and EXACTLY what to do, how to do it, and when to do it in order to meet and date the kinds of women that most men will only dream about, then I recommend you get a copy of my Advanced Dating Techniques CD/DVD Series.

This is the program that I guarantee will change the entire way you see the women and dating... and it will INSTANTLY help you meet more women and get more dates.

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I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

It's funny, because I was watching the Soprano's last week when Medow's boyfriend proposed to her, and that dude is such a fuckin' wussy. The entire time the two of them were arguing and he kept letting her make the decisions, you could honestly see in her face that she just wanted him to be a man and make up his mind for himself instead of being such a fucking pussy.

I used to do this a lot myself. Defer the decision to the girl I was with. Let her take the strong lead. But honestly, that's like, the WORST possible thing anyone could do with a woman. I think part of being a man is leading others, even if you're not confident that you're decision is the right one, at least you're taking that responsibility, and other people respond to that.

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