A simple way to communicate

I've heard many guys say that honesty and directness is attractive. And I agree with this idea... as long as you're being honest about something that the woman finds attractive. If you're saying "I have to be honest here... I've never been on a date with a woman, and I had to masturbate before I picked you up" it's probably not going to be the sexiest thing she's ever heard. lol... make sure you don't be too forward about your insecurities at the beginning of the relationship!

But if you're acting like she's your bratty little sister, you'll say whatever is on your mind, but you'll do it in a 'cool' way. Just like an older brother would.

Also, you won't let any of her ploys to control or test you even get past the radar. You'll just say "Look, stop it. That won't work on me..."

*There is a way to bust a woman's balls royally, while at the same time communicating that you like her. Be creative and think up some of your own.
Which leads me to my next idea...