10 way to Pump up Buying Temperature Tactics

author:         "AsainPlayboy"
date:             Fri, 18 Feb 2004 12:25:00 GMT
website:        http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com
subject:        10 way to Pump up Buying Temperature Tactics ...Mostly popularized by Mystery, it has the advantage of introducing that "Wow" factor. One does run the risk of being the entertainer, but as Mystery has shown...

This can be found on AsainPlayBoy's blog (theasianplayboy.blogspot.com) ~added by Oberion

OK, as us Pick Up Artists (PUAs) should know, Buying Temperature is the woman's emotional receptivity and her level of general attraction to the PUA at a given time.

(Note, that there is slight, but subtle difference between general attraction and sexual attraction. You can have one without the other, though then you run the risk of turning from the really cool, fun guy into the really cool, fun friend.)

Anyways, Buying Temperature Game isn't necessarily the tighest game if that forms the cornerstone of your repoitoire (though it's awesome for pushing for one night stands). Yet for some guys, who fall into the trap of being too comfortable and too serious, without pumping up BT, they come off as boring as opposed to exciting and intriguing to the woman.

So I give you some common BT tactics. Some I use quite a bit and some (like magic) I don't. There are two very common weaknesses of BT Game. One, it isn't solid and the attraction (unless you push for the one night stand) she feels for you tends to rapidly disappear in the morning. Secondly, it can also leave you stuck in the position of being the entertainment monkey. Once you're gone or you're out of tricks, the girls will walk away to find some other source of stimuli be it dancing, alcohol, drugs or hot guys/ girls (in other words Buying Temperature and attraction is transferable).

Let's get down to brass tacks:

Magic - Mostly popularized by Mystery, it has the advantage of introducing that "Wow" factor. One does run the risk of being the entertainer, but as Mystery has shown time and time again, by being the center of attention you create a situation of social proof and displaying social mastery. I won't say not to use it, but I've seen it work. One example that comes to mind is OCWaterBoy before he became the Direct Master that he is now. He did a magic trick (learned from Mystery) to engage an attractive, very slim girl who he eventually slept with. She KNEW what he was trying to do (ie capture her attention and impress her), but the trick was intriguing enough that she was OK with it.

Humor - The is really the most common BT strategy. You know it when you see it, but it also takes a modicum of social mastery as well as comic timing if you aren't a naturally humorous guy. Not easy to teach other than to immerse yourself in social situations and watch naturally funny guys. A few one liners and funny stories can help, it's the old concept of being Cocky and Funny popularized by David DeAngelo. I tend to have a pretty good sense of humor, but I'm not always "on" especially as the night wears on. It's the old concept of "Laughing Her Pants Off."

Shocking/ Humorous Story - You can stack the deck in your favor if you can convey a story that is shocking, overtly sexual, and/ or humorous. These are those tall tales that can captivate an audience, make them laugh, make them gasp, but at times, make them roll their eyes if you don't deliver it effectively. I like to use my own stories from my own life (a little embellished perhaps) though one can see the efficacy of canned stories like the Bad Ass Kid Routine and others. Fuck/ Marry/ Kill, while not necessarily a story, can work as way to both shock and be humorous while at the same time reframing the interaction in a sexual frame.