You guys know about that stuff, right? "Why you talking to me? Nice shirt, real gay. Where are your friends? Why you talking to us?" It's good because it gives you a chance to display your personality and really take control of the situation, let the girl know you're for real. I'll shit test them, too. Your're always going to get shit tests. Shit tests come in all forms. Have you guys ever had a girl end up hitting you? We had a girl on the beach throwing sand in TD's face. In later game she's cuddling with him, flipping out, she didn't know what to do. She knows she's got all these emotions and she can't stop it. Girls will shit test to throw themselves out of state. So if you're at a club, and you talk to these girls and they'll be mildly attracted at first, they'll shit test you to see if you're going to flake off, to see if you're a man, to see if you can handle it. I got, "Where's your friend?" the other day, and my friend is right behind me. The girl saw me get up from my table of friends and walk over. It's just retarded shit. What did I say to that? Okay, it was a 3-set at a table. One of the girls was shit testing; one was really in to me from the beginning. I used social proof. I used the one that liked me against the one that was shit testing me. I turned the whole table against her. "Why did you ask me that? What kind of question is that?" I turned to the one that liked me and said, "What's with your friend? Is she always like this? How can you guys hang out with her?"
PUA: How could you tell the girl would be on your side?
SB: You can tell. IOIs, intuition. You know when girls are into you and when they're not. PUA: There's a very good book with pictures of IOIs, proximity, groups…It's called "Secrets of Sexual Body Language." SB: That's strange. From what I've noticed, being in the field a lot, you'll learn to recognize IOIs like this, like this, like this (snap). There's different levels of IOIs. It's called ‘buying temperature.' I'll go through that a little later. A lot of the things I do with the indirect approach are shit testing girls. They'll start doing some really weird stuff. This is probably the most powerful tool I have: shit testing girls, using it against them. They don't know how to respond. I had this one girl. I was shit testing her. She was crazy attracted to me. She had a full beer. Dumps it on my shirt. This is how fucked up girls get when they start getting attracted. They do some really weird shit. They throw themselves out of state. PUA: How do you recover? SB: That was a shit test. You gotta say something like, "Hey, when I said drinks are on me, I didn't mean…" PUA: What'd you do after that? SB: I dragged her into the bathroom, threw her up against the wall and started making out. PUA: Caveman… SB: You can caveman later…Later game is great for caveman, because by that time they don't know what to do. You just have to take control of the situation. That's where you start being direct, where right off the bat you'll see guys in the street caveman chicks and grab them. It just doesn't work there. Later game…after you convey personality, qualify them, build attraction, comfort, trust. If you don't have any trust or comfort and you start caveman…it will work sometimes on party chicks. But on the chicks we're interested in, probably not. (TAPE FLIP) SB: They do shit to throw themselves out of state. How many of you guys have been in bed with chicks and you're about to close the deal and they start acting all fucked up. They start asking you really weird questions. "What's your real name? Where'd you go to school? Why'd you choose me? This is all stuff we've taken care of in later game by now.
