The Elastic Band Snapback Effect

Girls rely on social status as part of their survival. As guys, we know that

if we absolutely had to, we could go out into the woods and live alone. Girls, OTOH, are programmed to gain status socially. That's one of the reasons that they're so fascinated with relationships, and that they are attracted to socially proofed guys.

This is all generalization of course, and could be disputed. But either way, viewing things this way will get good results in the field.

Anyway, because of this, most hot girls will always want to maintain sexual power over you at all times. When you tease them, they'll start touching you as a way of TOOLING you.

The "Elastic band snap back effect" is where girls will immediately shoot IOIs at you, the second you strip them of sexual power. You can use this to get them to do things that they wouldn't otherwise do. They garner you some brief fake/temporary IOIs.

But while phoney, you can still use this to your advantage to move the set forward. Here are a few examples:

"I HATE YOU"

"YOU'RE LIKE MY LITTLE SISTER.."

"YOU'RE SO MUCH LIKE MY GRANDMOTHER"

"YOU'RE SO DRUNK.. YOU KNOW, I COULD TOTALLY HAVE CALLED YOU TOMMOROW TO HANG

OUT.. BUT BECAUSE YOU JUST *HAD* TO GET SO DAMNED DRUNK, NOW I WILL NEVER CALL

YOU BECAUSE YOU WON'T EVEN REMEMBER ME.. WAIT TO GO.."

"ARE YOU ADVENTUROUS, BECAUSE IF YOU'RE NOT ADVENTUROUS I CAN'T HANG WITH YOU"

"I COULD NEVER BE ATTRACTED TO YOU.. YOU'RE TOO NICE FOR ME.. I NEED A GIRL WHO

IS MORE BADASS"

All of these have the same thing in common - they garner FAKE and TEMPORARY indicators of interest.

To me, this is absolutely fascinating to watch. The second you usurp their sexual power, they'll go to any length to get it back, regardless of whether or not they're legitimately attracted to you.

This is a what I call a "PROGRAMMING WALL", which I'll post on that later. It's one of many programming walls.