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Cavemanning, Kino and Body Language
Notice that you can use stuff like high-5s as KINO-PING-TESTS. If a girl is at high buying temperature, and you "high-5" her, she'll practically EXPLODE trying to high-5 you. It will be like the most ridiculously enthusiastic high-5 of her life.
The same goes for just placing your hands out PALMS UP, and then waiting for her to put her hands on yours.
So for the punishment/reward stuff, rather than grabbing HER, I just throw out my hands palms up, and she grabs THEM. Then I squeeze, and she squeezes back all GIDDY AS HELL. Then I let go, or decide to hold on, depending on her state.
In terms of powerful bodylanguage and LEADING, you game her verbally, get her totally emotionally aroused, and then throw out an OPPORTUNITY for her to kino you. It's just like you initiating kino, but she's COMFORTABLE with this approach.
She will LOVE this.
It conveys that you won't make her uncomfortable at any point, and that you won't be like 99% of all other guys who are pushy and break her state by escalating without testing the waters first.
Girls LOVE sex, but they want to feel comfortable.
This is one of the major reasons for flaking. Guys don't "get" buying temperature and escalation. So a girl kisses a guy in a club, but doesn't want to meet up with him again the next day because she knows that he'll LOGICALLY take the same physical-liberties with her that he did the night before. Like, she LIKES the guy, but she feels worried that he'll think that because they made-out on the dance floor that he'll try to make out with her the second he sees her, without escalating her emotional arousal first.
So in terms of leading, just game, wait for the signal of buying temperature (maybe her qualifying herself, often other shit also), and then give a KINO-OP to her.
At the same time, this is in CONTRAST to "caveman as a de-clogger". I may be planning to pull a girl from the club, and I jut out my arm for her to take but she doesn't do it.
What do I do? Either I re-game a bit (if I think that's necessary), or I recognize it as something that won't be overcome with verbal game, and I go CAVEMAN DRAG STYLE.
MANY girls *NEED* to be cavemanned out of a club. They NEED this logical de-clogging.
Still, primary modus operandi is game her, provide kino opportunity for her, and then lead and escalate.
GAME = social value, emotionally arouse, pass tests, trust, escalate, phase shift to sexual, close.
1) are you like this with everybody, or just people cooler than you?
2) whoa.. you guys are like the mean cool kids from high school.
3) OK I guess that names are out of the question.. alright, I'll call you #1 and you #2.. #2, please tell #1 that she has a white thingy sticking out of her ear, and that nobody is going to talk to her tonight because its really nasty.. #1, please tell #2 that there is a charm school opening on x-street, and that she qualifies for instant admission.
4) whoa.. you guys are like unapproachable total A-Crowd..
5) you guys are fake.. this isn't genuine.. you're just acting like this because its club time.. I don't think that you treat people like this during the day.. this fake.. be genuine.
By Tyler Durden
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