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Cavemanning, Kino and Body Language
Actually I spent about a month or two straight learning how to walk up on girls I hadn't even spoken to, and start making out with them and cavemanning them.
It was funny, and worked well on college. If you subcommunicate the right things (bodylanguage, tonality, and the reactions of people around you), you can get away with this stuff no problem. It's funny shit.
Nowadays I have actually dropped caveman from my repertoire and find that its kind of amateur.
I think that its a cycle. There's many cycles in PUA development, and here are a few:
1- AFC: spineless emotional tampon, uses friendship as emotional blackmail in hopes to get some ass
2- RAFC: not afraid anymore to convey desires as a man, doesn't supplicate anymore
3- PUA: conveys active disinterest, tries to push girls away or even into the friendship zone
Funny, how (1)and (3) are so SIMILAR, and yet in (1) the girl RUNS from you and in (3) the girl the girl frantically CHASES you like a desperate chick-AFC.
Likewise with routines, as CRAIGSD220 said when I was in San Diego:
1- AFC: asks "what's your name" and tries to qualify himself in all his boring logical conversations
2- EARLYRAFC: uses routines as something better to talk about
3- LATERAFC: gets good at having great natural conversations, and the routines are now detectably canned
4- PUA: gets so good, that the routines are like NUCLEAR AMMO in the already super tight conversation
Anyway, the same went with cavemanning. It was direct, and was an improvement, but now I find that I'm working to SURPASS the best natural/confident PUAs in the venue, and hit my own level.
The cool guys in the club aren't afraid to go for it, but the coolEST guys in the club have SO MUCH on their hands that they are DISINTERESTED in anything short of the BEST. And even the snobbiest HB10 is always afraid that she's not the best, which is why active disinterest and negs work.
For guys who believe that HB10s can pickup on this game and aren't impressed by it, they haven't seen a top PUA in action.
Active disinterest works for a variety of reasons, among which are that its a NATURAL mechanism that girls have to sexually validate themselves at ALL TIMES.
For guys who have been indirect for a while, and had the girls begging to be with them, and went for rapport only to find the girls RAN, this is the validation mechanism at work. In many cases, the SECOND the girl is sexually re-validated, you are BLOWN OUT.
Girls need to be sexual validation at all times, because on an emotional level they know that if they lost that, they would not survive. (haa, not actually true, but its how they FEEL)
This is the SCREENING vs. CHASING mentality at work also. It changes the mental processes, same as in SALES.
Anyway, having laid that down, I want to write up a bit on cavemanning and powerful body language.
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