Value And Active Disinterest

author:          "Tyler"
date:             Mon 22 Nov 2004 21:53 GMT
newsgroup:  alt.seduction.fast
subject:        8 Instant Value Display routines...It AMPLIFIES attraction at key points, because it pre-emptively disarms the natural cutoff mechanism that girls have when they feel themselves ...

Some thoughts - hopefully helpful despite their absurd complexity. Distinction:

C&F False disqualification.

ACTUAL false disqualification.

The C&F False disqualification is like busting her on her mannerisms. "I'm gay. This is my boyfriend. You can't to us, we're gay."

Or she's giggling, and you say "Go away! Go away!", while doing the pushaway move that I described in the Tonguedown notes.

are laughing.

Again, this is all C&F type stuff.

It AMPLIFIES attraction at key points, because it pre-emptively disarms the natural cutoff mechanism that girls have when they feel themselves heating up to an uncomfortable buying temperature too quickly, before proceeding to game more.

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OK so what's REAL false disqualification, and what is its purpose?

There exists many social SUBCOMMUNICATIONS that convey social value.

-breaking rapport

-neutral to rapport

-trying to gain rapport

This goes on in social interactions all day long. Notice that the "coolest" people in the club venue are trying to break rapport with everyone. (They even wear sunglasses in a dark club, to convey that they are too cool and don't want to make eye contact with anyone).

They roll in with their Cadillac SUV, hot chicks in tow, and don't talk to

anyone in the whole club except maybe the people similar to them. YET, if they were to approach YOU or YOUR GROUP in the club, you'd chat THEM, despite that they'd blow you off.

You'd chat them because they have high social value in that specific venue. People are DRAWN to interact with people of value, even if they're not attracted. If Bill Gates wanted to chat, would I? Yes. Even if it was about nothing that helped me whatsoever, I'd just do it for some reason.

What Style is talking about here (which is a related to stuff I've discussed extensively on the Mystery Lounge), is that value re-adjustments may be necessary PRIOR to gaming.