Value and Attraction are DIFFERENT

The things women respond to though, while they appear to be social constructs, still go back to evolution. Otherwise, why is some alpha black guy on the street more attractive than a nerdy white millionaire

businessman. Who has more societal value? Who gets laid easier by a random stranger?

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TylerDurden:

Exactly.. But what you're on about here may possibly not be exactly what you may think.

Think:

Black guy = attraction Business nerd = value

NEITHER are CONSISTENTLY getting laid by girls in a situation where its not fools mate.

These guys play NUMBERS game. These black player guys attract, but the girls run off giggling.. They LIKE the guy, but they won't FUCK him.. He keeps approaching until one DOES.

He never looks like an idiot. Girls don't think bad of him. They just think "I'd like to, but I never would".

Conversely, the business nerd has all the girls WANTING to be attracted to him, and giving him all the chances. But most won't get with him, because he can't attract them.

The key is in recognizing the sequencing..

 .... which makes her very open to feeling

2-  attraction

     which pumps her full of feelings

3-  comfort (if needed for non-party chicks) .... which makes her prepared and wanting

4-  physical escalation

By understanding that value is SOCIALLY CONSTRUCTED, we can look to what it actually is.

In the past, I'd just run the same game on every girl. Sometimes it wouldn't work in different scenes. Then I recognized the distinction, and modified. Now I can work any scene, given the adaquate preparation time and observation.

This is what I'm talking about when I say that attraction/value are separate. The game you run won't be effective unless you have the right value prior to the sarge. I first realized this in Miami South Beach, at a club called Skybar. The roots of pure Mystery-MM is LA/Toronto. I wasn't trained properly to convey value at Skybar. I shifted my value via both clothing (non-collegiate peacocking) and the stuff you're talking about in this post. Then the game I ran was as effective as it was on college girls. Unless you have the right value beforehand, she will block your game, IN THE SAME WAY that you'd block the game of a fatgirl who is touching you (physically, her touch feels good, but she doesn't have the value for you to allow it to escalate so you cut it off before it can start.. our attract tactics are massively field tested and are effective, but the girl will not allow herself to be taken in by them if you fail to present the social value).