I see that some of the PUAs of the group have been putting out some interesting material lately (BREAKBEAT GOLD CLUBBING, and GUNWITCH's new stuff that I am proofreading right now for grammar), and I appreciated this stuff and I felt compelled to put out some of my good stuff, to follow suit.
Thinking about my situation this week with my ex-GF, and how I will certainly be doing some BFdestroying very soon, I thought that the bros. might be interested in having a look at my potent and thoroughly field tested BFdestroying techniques. (I'd better get some good replies on that email help I asked for guys, its actually important to me). I want to add, that I see nothing wrong in attempting to BFdestroy a relationship, because it can hardly be a good relationship if some dude she just met was so easily able to break it up. In the case of a marriage with young children, however, I might not be inclined to use this stuff. Comments always welcome.
My potent BF Destroying routine, in all its evil glory: I have used this for 5 years, and seen if work effectively for both myself and for friends who ask me to BFdestroy on chicks that they want to get with. I
have seen this work on all forms of commitment (marriage, engaged, BF/GF, FB that she's attached to).
This stuff is more geared towards prompting an actual breakup, than a ONS (though its worked WELL for ONS also in -many- cases). I've read MrSEX4uNYC's stuff on that, and its all you need. So if you're just trying to make yourself sexually available to commited chicks who you sense want you anyway, this stuff is hardly necessary. In that case, just do a ctrl-f search for "boyfriend" in NYC's archive, and you're golden. For HBs in satisfying relationships (ie: getting sexed well, getting emotional nurturing, guy is challenging yet fair) that is your only option, as no amount of BFdestroying will do shit.
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Background - a few things to remember:
1) When BFdestroying you walk a tightrope between evoking too many bad feelings and having them anchoured to you, and getting the chick to want to dump her BF. Don't forget that your end goal is to f-close, not to break her up for some other dude to enjoy.