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Harlequin on AMOG, Awesome!
I almost got killed because I had game' post in FR is something of a disturbance to me.
Guys like that, they're going to end up killing someone, even if it's themselves. I don't know about you but I don't like violence toward anyone.
Many Amogs & WBAFCs, no matter their size, they're still just a screwed up adolescent kid on the inside with a great deal to learn about how to be a decent human being.
I've studied psychology till I can't bear to study anymore, then I discovered Fight Psychology. One of my Sensei, a guy named Max has a degree in psychology. He's known as the best Streetfighter in Leeds yet he's one of the most respectful & peaceful guys I've ever known. His frame conveys his inner peace. He does not expect the world around him to be violent & so he does not experience violence without his control. Know this: What you expect of the world, you experience in the world. What you think of life, manifests... what you think of, you create... You fear spiders?
You will notice the spider, you will find it. It attracts your awareness. No fear people. And in pre-fight escalation, embrace fear, it will give you the adrenaline for the fight of flight mechanism.
Fear is totally dependant on you not wanting it. So let it in & move past it. Embrace fear; it's not the fear that we're trying to avoid, it's cowardice that you should avoid.
This amogging thing, it should not be about agression. That's for the ego. We attack what we fear. Why should I fear my brother? The best place to meet is on equal terms.
Know when to out-alpha & when just to display equality. Don't attack the Amogs. Use humour after sincerity, use silence & calm when another is raising their voice. Have NO fear & people will not know how to defeat you. Prize yourself above any gain an amog could make by bringing you down. Knowing you has a value greater than fighting you: convey this.
Find out what appeals to people. You don't HAVE to befriend them, you just have to show that you're of value & that you're not to be feared. Yet they can still detect that it would be a dumb move to get on the wrong side of you.
The guy that was agressive toward you in a set, would he be so agressive if he were the one you opened & won over first?
Sarge & the amogs will come.
Amog & the girls will come.
Even when it seems too late, you can use your identity & value to win guys over.
I've gone up to the primo alpha of a set of guys that were hunting me down, I've said something to him, he's laughed like a hyena, told me I'm alright & then insisted I roll with him & his 'crew' & been to what seemed like every VIP room in the city.
If you're going to be a PUA you should know how to handle yourself, your social tools & any Peacocking you might do can create extremely jealous AFCs, some of whom are not your average guys... they could be drug dealers, former convicts & when I visit certain areas, I run into a lot of soldiers & they're usually at war with themselves & at the very least, any guy they don't like the look of.
If you're going to be working in one area or one city for a while, I advise you to make a connection with doormen, Dj's club owners, get familiar & handshake happy with anyone that looks like they could be your rival or cock block on any other day. Find powerful people, find their passions, usually more power, & let them talk about themselves to you for ten minutes, then tell them who you are, about your company or your club/bar/ambitions/car, anything that they will respect & then they like you & even if you fuck up & they don't like you, they WILL respect you & that's enough.
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