Out-alpha'ing guys is a fast way to convey value. It's like stereotypical male fantasy of wishing that they could slay the dragon or save a girl from harm. Why is that? It's because they may have balls of steel, but they don't know how to CONVEY it fast. This sort of thing helps you to do that. Also, it's so important to have this stuff down in clubs, because there are always guys trying to lower your status to elevate theirs. So being savvy of the subcommunication that's going on in between alpha guys is really key in social gatherings.
It's also so key, because it gives you the confidence that you're the coolest guy in the venue. You know that you're in control of your situation, and you won't have to resort to qualifying yourself and getting into long winded debates, with other guys that try to mess with you.
Anyway, I'll post more on this later. So on to the outing report.
I get a phone call from another one of my ex-girlfriends' ex-boyfriends.
This is the guy that I "stole" my ex-girlfriend from. I slept with her while they were still together, and she dumped him supposedly for me (debatable). Then we stayed together for a while.
So its funny, because this guy had read ASF prior to breaking up with his girl, in passing. He knew who I was, and was like "WTF???? TYLERDURDEN FROM ASF STOLE MY GIRLFRIEND???? AM I GOING TO F*CKING WAKE UP FROM THIS???"
Man, you've gotta see the humour in this. Like imagine if you guys got your girlfriend stolen by Maniac_High or something, after you'd read the site.
Anyway, he's a good guy. Just a decent guy who loved his girlfriend and wanted to make her happy, kind of like what I was back in my AFC days when I lost my 2 year GF to some dude who was more alpha than me. And like me, he was broken up by it for around a year.
So I decided to start taking him out regularly, to let him watch me work and give him some tutoring. It's very cathartic for me, because I feel alot like I'm talking to myself 2 years ago. Like as if I could go back in time and help myself to "pop the blue pill", and escape the depression and whatnot. This guy could be good, too, with time. He's decent looking, tall, and intelligent (hence he had a cute GF, who I took from him). He just needs material and some practice with C&F and 25-points type stuff.
What followed tonight was a real eye-opener for him, and also reminded me of what it's like to be on the other end of the cheating equation.
We arrive at the club around midnight. I walk with him up to one of the bartenders, and try to game her up. I get her laughing, but I do poorly on the follow up. I over-teased a bit, and felt kind of stupid. I re-gained her interest by telling her that she looks like she belongs in NYC (to compensate for overnegging), and then eject while it's still good because I don't feel like trying to backpedal.
I walk over to a different bar at the other end of the venue, where there is a smoking hot bartender and a pretty cute girl who is surrounded by 4 guys. They are the only set on our side of the bar. The venue is slow tonight, which suits me fine because I really only need 1 or 2 girls to have a full night, unless I am conducting a workshop or testing new material/ideas or something.
We sit down on the bar stools, where we'll spend the rest of this report.
The main AMOG is a big f*cker. He's wearing his rugby team shirt, and he's a natural. The girls dig him.
The bartender is telling the AMOG's 5-set about how everyone thinks that her breasts are fake, but they're really real, etc., etc... She's qualifying herself, which surprises me because this girl has no need. She probably wants the AMOG.
I yell over:
TD Don't be embarrassed.. Implants will give you buoyancy when you're swimming. If we were all lost at sea, you'd be the only one to survive..
HBBartender hahahhaha. THEY'RE NOT FAKE!
TD Sure.. Um yeah, cool..
AMOG Hey! Don't insult my girlfriend! (I can tell he's playing Mr. Coolguy AMOG, and that he's not her boyfriend.)