Bathing, Clothing and Body Language Tips!

author:         "Vincent Chase"
date:            Sat, 17 April 2005 13:02:00 GMT
website:      http://wwv.themysterymethod.com/forum/archive/index.php?t-4305.html
subject:       Bathing, Clothing and Body Language Tips! ... First eliminate any notions about categories, there are none, there is no jock style, no prep style, no punk style, no urban style...

First off... bathing.

Wash, everyday and everything. 'Nuff Said.

See how easy that is? Shower gels are great, but still use soap. I have two soaps in my shower Dial and Dove, one is great for genting clean but leaves your sking awful dry and the other leaves you smoother than brazilian wax. Do not use 2 in one shampoo conditioners, the whole idea of having two soaps is the same thing as having two seperate hair cleansers. I'm not going to tie my dial to my dove and figure, "Hey the best of both worlds." That's not how it works. That being said, scalp restorers (Dandruff Products) are proven to promote healthier, thicker and stronger hair. I don't give a fuck, I buy Garnier Fructis because it looks cool! But, (like i'd buy something just because it looks cool.) a study has shown that it can accelerate hair growth up to 2x faster than with ordinary shampoo. Am I trying to grow out my hair? No, but new hair is healthy hair.

Clothing (This Is One Persons Opinions and Suggestions)

There are many different styles right? Wrong. There are only two styles. Good and bad.
Sure there are different looks, and no question different personalities and obviously different people, but either you've got style or you don't. Let's get started.

First eliminate any notions about categories, there are none, there is no jock style, no prep style, no punk style, no urban style it's all the same. It's not the clothes that put you in the category, it's your personality, so for the mean-time forget all of your acomplishments, forget that you don't have bling, don't worry about looking like a "poser," and don't worry about being cookie cutter, follow this and you'll be one of a kind for sure.

Let's address some of the pants us guys wear.

Avoid kahki and dressy pants unless it's an occasion, you want to look well dressed not stuffy or overly-wealthy. Pick out some nice jeans, FITTED jeans, if your jeans are halfway down your ass crack then pick out a smaller size or grab a belt, they're usually next to the pants.

What you are looking for in a pair of jeans are colors, do not get all 'blue jeans' and don't get too many with those tired faded or bleached/acid washed splotches, and fit. Blue, black and white are great options and can go with almost anything. Point your hand like a gun with two fingers for the barrel, place your fingers between your hip and your jeans while wearing them, you should be able to fit two fingers or less width between you and your jeans, this is a good fit. Any more and they'll droop, any less and they'll call you "Camel Toe Joe" around the local hangouts.

You can create an entire outfit around the pants, they are the pillar. Pants tell women more about you than you can imagine. Grass stains? active. Faded from wear? Possibly a packrat. Et cetera. I'm stressing jeans in this because of their classic look and versatility, but don't be afraid to branch out. Canvas pants are nice, bermuda shorts are just enough to keep it "drafty" without being 70's baketball shorts and a pair of Just about anything simple, no fancy patterns or crazy washes and lines. If you want your pants to look like a Pollock then do it yourself, it provides a great way to start a conversation with that Brunette across the room and give's you a one-of set of trousers.