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Vincent On Fashion
"I AM fucking cocky!"
My good buddy Dalian was having trouble with confidence, he calls me up in a panic, practically crying about how he's not ready to go out yet, I had Slade turn the car around and go to the public library. I find him sitting there in a heap of sales books and self help persuasions and dating tippers. I sit down next to him and I finally arrive at the point where I tell him to do this very thing, shout out "I am fucking cocky!" the librarian didn't say a word and he's never been the same.
Know thy self. Beautiful words, but let's take it one step farther. A lot of you guys are hiding behind facades that ARE NOT YOU! You are not that guy afraid to go out, that is a shell, a shell you must break, a membrane a carapace trapping you within. So let's not recitee know thy self, let us recite "Be thy self." Be the person you ACTUALLY ARE, Mystery say's be you but be the best you. I agree and disagree, I think you SHOULD be the best you... unfortunately a lot of people reading this aren't themselves, you hear that? I know that you are not you. Become the man you are.
One of the best way'sto develop your own style is to identify a skill you have. Some people bitch that they don't have skills, well you do if VC says you do. You play video games well? That IS a fucking skill. Maybe you don't like your job but you do what you do very well, THEN THAT IS A SKILL! Use it for you!
When I started going in field, close to two years ago, the only thing that I thought I did well was draw and play video games. So how did I work this into my style? Well, before I evolved any fashion sense I stumbled onto my own brand of peacocking! I would wear four arm bands, one of Mario, one of Pacman, one of Zelda and one of the Thundercats Logo. I would also draw in henna these elaborate flames on my entire arm, each line approximately one centimeter apart covering my entire left forearm, elbow to wrist. It would elvove to include other things that would become my style for that period of my life. My style has become more sophistocated but on certain ocassions, like in Miami, I LOVE to go crazy, and it works because I can go from slow and articulated to speedy, crass 'n' crazy, we'll call it the difference between Vincent Chase and VC.
Use your skills to your advantage. Do Karate? Take your last belt, cut it down to length and tie it around your head like a sweat band if you want, maybe wear your Gi as a jacket. Sure it seems fucked up, but the idea is incorporating your identity into your style. (More on Identity coming soon!) I make my own clothes now and I wear them not only to showcase my clothes but so that if someone asks me about something i'm wearing that i made I can give them a story, one that just happens to be a DHV! Why? Because making clothes is a skill. So she asks about your Judo Pants, well you tell her that you've been taking Judo lessons for "X" amount of years and today you acomplished a great task, you were able to defeat your sensei so in honor of your success you are wearing your pants, it's like a commorative thing, ya' hear doll?
By this point you are probably getting frustrated, I CAME HERE FOR FASHION TIPS! Well before you assume that i'm a jerk off that doesn't deliver I will stray from my vague and rambling tips into more crystal gems that you can apply to you life everyday! Let's get cracking on it shall we?
Ogre's are like onions... so is fashion
Metaphorically speaking fashion has many layers, may levels. Street fashion to haute couture and so one, but let's talk literally for now. I posted on this else where but not to it's full extent so here goes:
Layering is an important and useful tool in any man's arsenal. You can stay warm or cool, add depth and texture and gain a sense of sensibilty and sturdyness all simply by layering, preferably well. Which OF COURSE leads us to the question of... What the hell is, and how do you, layer?
Well quite simply my friend, layering is using multiple garment to create a multi faceted look, it allows you to play with color, optical illusions and let's you be preapred for any situation. Let's me be prepared for any situation? Well, yes:
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