But... HOW? HOW do you sweep a girl off her feet? It might be hard for girls to understand this, because I feel that girls are exposed to social pressure much earlier and in greater magnitude than many guys. Thus, they start learning how to handle social situations much earlier. For a guy like me, for many guys like me, they don't know what the FUCK they are doing. Shit, I didn't even know how to KISS a girl! And you expect me to just "be myself?" Cool. Okay. Thanks.
That's all I really want to do on this board. Besides the constant validation (hahaha) and the lingering possibility of nudes... just teach the guys what's up and how. Because, as I ALWAYS say, CONFIDENCE and SOCIAL SKILLS are NOT discovered. They are not magically "found" within yourself.
They are built. Painstakingly, inch by inch, sweatdrop by sweatdrop, girl by girl, party by party, friend by friend, discomfort by discomfort... they are BUILT.
Maybe some guys are lucky. They're born with it. Or they learn it early. But some guys aren't. And that's no reason for them to have to settle.
By Flame
