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The way I generalize male/female relationships
OK, so now we have four general situations: 1) You have no power, she has no power, 2) You have no power, she has the power, 3) You have power, she has power, 4) You have power, she has no power.
If you really take a moment and think about it, I'll bet that you'll find, as I have, that most problems that guys run into with women come from them believing that THEY HAVE NO POWER. In many situations, us guys just act like she has power and we don't.
One of the biggest shifts in success for me came when I just started acting like I was the one with more power in every situation.
For instance, if I've just started talking to a woman in a coffee shop, and I want to get her number, I'll say... "Hey, it was nice meeting you... I'm going to get back to my friends..." then I turn back around and say "Do you have email?" If she says yes, then I take out my pen and have her write down her email, and then tell her to write her name, and then her number too. It's usually pretty smooth. But maybe half the time, she'll say "Well, I don't give my number out..." or "Why don't you give me yours..." or whatever.
Originally, I was stumped because I just gave away all my power to her. Amazingly enough, I would just kind of think "OK, well I guess I'll just have to give her my number and hope she calls..."
I was giving my power away (I later learned that this is very unattractive to women in general).
Now, if a woman says "Why don't you give me your number and I'll call you" I do something COMPLETELY different. As a matter of fact, it's almost comical in its simplicity.
I simply point to the piece of paper and say "It's OK, go ahead write it down."
If I get more resistance, I say "Just write it down, I'll only call you ten times a day."
Now, I'm not perfect, but in most situations with women, I keep my power for myself. I assume that I can handle the situation better than she can. And by just telling her what I want her to do in a calm, confident manner, I almost always get the number.
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