9 Common Social Conditionings that impair pick-up

Never hide your sexual desires to be "liked". Never pretend "oh I'm not interested in you" to get past her conditioning against sex. This will not only backfire it will waste your time.

Conditioning 5:

"Women say the first thing they want is a sense of humor"

"Chicks dig my sense of humor"

"Damn John gets laid a lot, must be cause he keeps the chicks laughing"

A commonly observed scenario: a woman laughs at guy's jokes, and then ends up having sex with him later on. Predictably, every guy there who sees it says, "She must like a guy with a sense of humor", and proceed to go out and ENTERTAIN, rather than attract women, in hopes that she will like them SOOO much she will jump his bones right there. This is not going to happen unless she is VERY attracted to him in another way. We want to work with what looks we have and move them in the right directions for sex better than other guys, not create a non sexual rapport with jokes and funny stories.

See there are a thousand ways to get rapport with women and then have sex with them if they are attracted to your looks, money or status already in the first place. IF ALL you have is that rapport that you have you built, it's only that she "likes you" or rapport it does not mean you have attracted her enough for sex to go down.

When a woman is asked, "what do you like in a guy?" she doesn't usually say "LOOKS and GOOD SEX" or else be branded a slut, as above was mentioned she wouldn't say that. SO, she grumbles the stock answer "a guy with a sense of humor". Which is true at least, she does LIKE a sense of humor.

She LIKES those funny men; she doesn't HAVE SEX WITH those funny men unless they happen to be attractive as well as funny.

By the way, when a woman says "confidence" that's as close to saying " a guy who knows I want to have sex and creates the opportunity for it aggressively" as women usually get. More on confidence later.

A sense of humor isn't a bad thing, but it's not sexually motivating or progressive. Stand up comedians are often natural entertainers because they have learned that their poor looks can be accepted that way. In the same way the guys with conditioning type four do. Check stand or bar stool comedians are the same entity with less talent. At the end of the night they go home and fuck the sleeve of their favorite jacket rather than a woman. Again some people say, "nice guy's finish last", because they see the funny entertainer go home alone. These conditionings are all linked in a real bad way.

Conditioning 6:

" A guys got to be unique for women to like him"
Again it doesn't hurt to be unique, but there's that LIKE word again. Women do not say to themselves "WOW this 450lb fat guy with greasy hair and pimples just landed on a space ship and can levitate, I want to fuck him". A LOT of guys spend all their time trying to be so different they forget to just be a natural masculine sexual man.

Ask any woman and if she answers honestly she has in fact had sex with guys she found not only boring but probably didn't even really "like". They had no redeeming value other than the fact they were attractive to her, made themselves available to her or happened to be available and didn't wait for her to make the moves or also known as they tried to fuck her.

Conditioning 7:

" I should be getting laid"
"I'm a loser cause I can't get hot chicks"
"People must think I'm lame cause I haven't been laid in so long"
" I think she's hot but she doesn't make anyone envy me"

BULLSHIT!

Your sex drive is YOUR sex drive. YOUR satisfaction is what counts. If you don't have actual desire for sex, you shouldn't be trying to get laid for other people to look upon you better. DROP THE EGO.