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9 Common Social Conditionings that impair pick-up

Women focus on makeup, hair, exercise and clothing to attract men better, relationships, dramatic television romance.

Look at male inventors, leaders, rulers, and innovators vs. the number of females in such endeavors. Go to a martial arts class, look at sports, look at business, and look at politics. The numbers are staggering of men in higher proportion in ANY field that isn't sexually oriented or "more attraction" based. Aside from workplaces of neutral nature obviously, but in actual applied willpower to any area, chicks are all about sex. It is not MEN who "think with their genitals" as it's claimed, it's women.

I can already hear women reading this proving me right by saying I am a misogynist or don't know what I am talking about because I insulted them. PROVING right there that they see themselves as "women", their identity is "a woman". Women with some passions in their life don't see themselves as a "woman" just as men never see themselves as a "man" they are a "fighter" a "comedian" a "teacher".

A woman can be a "mother" or a "writer" or a hell even a "soldier". Women with an identity outside their gender aren't offended when someone talks about "women", just as men aren't offended by talk of "men" because we usually have an identity outside our gender.

So KNOW that women are VERY scared of being thought of as a sexual fiend who not only wants us men same as we want them, but NEEDS our sex badly. To reveal this to men too often or too much is like breaking an unspoken untaught code amongst women.

Think back to high school, a big workplace or college. There was probably a fairly attractive maybe even stunning woman or girl there. Intelligent, fun to talk to, maybe even a real decent genuine human being. She would have easily been "one of the in crowd". She fucked a couple guys though. Maybe just didn't know the guys well. Maybe one guy she fucked was the boyfriend of the "top dog chick". Whatever the reason, she is "out". Basically thought of as lower than she is, less than she is as a person. Branded "lower" because of allowing her love of sex to go against social rules and conditionings.

Surely women fear this. Outright fear from what I've encountered, not just a passing "that would suck", but REAL fear of it.

That's just what can happen to her for acting on it without not only HER discretion, but the discretion of any who may be watching. Many women even repress their sexuality for fear of men not wanting them and branding them the same "slut" or "whore" that other women will. Just as many men repress their sexuality for fear of looking needy or desperate, or otherwise offending the "anti sexual conditioners".

YIKES! Right? Don't worry I will show you how to get around that.


But realize here, physically healthy normal women do like sex at a biological level just as much and sometimes more even than we do. They are just conditioned against it at spontaneous or promiscuous levels. Conditioned against making the first move sexually and are also conditioned to say they don't enjoy it.

 
Conditioning 2:

"Women only like jerks" "nice guys finish last" "girls only go for assholes"

As talked about above also this is bullshit.

This can be perceived by "nice guy culture" as an excuse for a poor love life and justified because they are such catchy sayings.

This is perceived only. An extension of conditioning 1 is all it really is. Many guys who are conditioned that women don't like sex tend to then also not be sexual in nature to appease them.

Ends up in a giant fuckin loop.

"Well I wasn't pushy with her, I wasn't desperate or needy for sex" "she still didn't have sex with me or even pay attention to me" "women must not like sex".


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