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Romantic Letters

I'm not really into "romance", so to speak, but I use email sometimes and it goes alright. Here are a few of my personal recent email exchanges, that you may find useful. I'm going to write the girls to tell them that I posted them, since they're cool girls and won't care.

My email game is probably not the best, because I hate email. But I can maintain flirty interactions over email, without much difficulty, just using the same frames that I use in real life, so its congruent to my personality.

Check them out.

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I WRITE:

baby, you are the BEST...

did I tell you how much a girl that has strong grammar skills turns me on? I'm picturing you up at the front of the class, in your hot topic glasses, and your hair done up in a bun, with a black suit and high heels with stockings.. and then you call me in for detention, after I was such a brat.. and then ............... (named removed) WHAT ARE YOU DOING?? I'm your STUDENT@!

thanks for going over my site so carefully.. I know you're thinking about me, and you are the bomb..

SHE REPLIES:

OHHHHH.....Detention. You naughty boy, you. Good thing, I'm a naughty teacher and it's time for your lesson!

I want you to sit and think LONG and HARD about the naughty thoughts you had about me earlier that got you into detention..............and then I want you to show show me what you were thinking about.

While you do that, I am going to get a little more comfortable and loosen the buttons on my blouse and take of my panyhose......MMMMM...that feels much better. While you ponder your dirty thoughts, I'll be on my desk doing some manual research....................

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Another girl from before this girl:

SHE WRITES:

>so did you miss me loads whilst I was away?? I think you should cos I'm looking all tanned and lovely right now - in fact
>I'd go as far to say you should be aching for me right now!! Anyway go get yourself another bowl of that awesome pasta and I'll >give you a call in a few days. (This is a callback humour, from when I wrote her and said that I was thinking about her, but got >distracted by my pasta bowl and forgot about her)
>ps - staying at becki's tonight so think I'll try 'gay chicken' with her -
>I'll report back!
>take care

I WRITE:

This is a very provocative email, (named removed).. you think you're very clever, don't you? alright, you kind of are.. but that doesn't mean that I'm going to let you take advantage of me.. alright, well maybe I will.. But that doesn't mean I'm cheap. I'm just a victim of desire.

OK, I have to go to bed now.. I have class in 4 hours.. Do you realize that I'm a student, (name removed)? A STUDENT.

SHE WRITES:

Dearest student I'm sorry if my provocative email caused you offence - that was not my intention - ok, ok, so maybe it was but i think it was worth it just to get your response!

And to think that i would take advantage of you - tut, tut see now you've just put ideas into my head that i may need to go through with...

By Tyler Durden

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 Scorpius, I’m glad you had fun man. Keep going out, and let’s hang in Toronto
some time. Also, keep posting on the chatboard, because its a great way to
reinforce your material, and to go back over your stuff later, and see how
you’ve progressed.
As for this question, its an important one.
On 1/31/04 4:24:00 AM, Endiphrent wrote:
>Later on Tyler said: "Don’t
>say hands off the merchandise
>when you’re in rapport."
>Me: "I was in rapport with her
>too?"
>Tyler: "Yes, through
>association."
>
Yes. This is so key.
My wing’s and I are always careful of this.
Back when we were first learning nightgame (around this time last year), we’d
often bump into problems when we’d merge into eachother’s sets. We’d want to
increase attraction for ourselves as we’d merge into the set, and we’d rely on
C&F as a crutch.
The problem is that C&F is often midunderstood. C&F verbal sparring is a basic
subcommunicative action that is often done early in a pickup, that is intended
to sort of "sort out" and determine social value. Like if you first meet, and
neg on eachother a bit, its a flirty way of saying "I can take your shit, and I
can dole it out too." It conveys that you have high social status, and are
both witty and are both in your own reality and not easily knocked off your
horse.
That’s why when a C&F based PUA meets up with a girl that can really hold her
own, he knows that she’s a cool and fun girl, and he can then shift into
comfort building once she’s ready (there is piles written on WHEN to do this,
and really its more intuition than something that’s easily conveyed over the
internet.. also, so many guys misunderstood what it means to shift into comfort
building, as they’ll think that comfort building is BORING talk, and that they
can drop everything, and are surprised when the girl loses state).
On top of this being social subcommunication, alot of it is just EMOTIONAL


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