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Mystery Method - Rules Of Attraction
The Mystery Method is a method of seduction, first popularized by Erik
Von Markovik a.k.a "Mystery". It's a simple step-by-step system that
teaches you how to meet, attract, and seduce or date gorgeously hot
beautiful women that anyone can learn. Here are some basic concepts.
Logically, rejection causes us
no harm. But emotionally, rejection can be a punishing experience.
According to mystery method, you can't avoid rejection. It isn't the
solution to avoid being vulnerable. Rather, the solution is to embrace
your vulnerability, to embrace rejection, and let the Field show you
what is good and what is bad. Most approach anxiety is a result of
imagined rejections, not real ones.
The purpose of the neg is to actively demonstrate
disinterest by disqualifying one's self as a suitor, or by falsely
disqualifying the target. they are not insults - instead they resemble
the comments of a person who does not view the target as being sexually
◊ You are too much of a nice girl to me
◊ Nice nails, are they real? No? Oh, well they're nice anyway.
◊ You are 'pre-selected' by other women - If you open the group and already have girls with you.
◊ Being not-needy and don't try to impress her.
◊ Story-telling with embedded (but well-concealed) bragging, appearing emotionally unreactive to 'targets'
◊ Cocky and funny
If she flakes on you, don't confront her about it next time you see her.
Are you the guy who sat around and got upset? Don't act as if things are
a big deal. They aren't.
◊ Be a fun and playful
person. This is preferable to appearing tough or 'deep.'
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