4. Demonstrating higher social value than her
"The only rule in pick-up is to always be visibly cooler than the chick
you're trying to game." –Tyler Durden, Cliff's List
Don't ever let her show you up. ALWAYS maintain the upper hand. If she
makes you look like a fool because you have no comeback or look weak,
the target becomes more cool than you and you're in a position of
weakness.
When you're in her presence, you should never treat her like you
desperately want and need her approval. Whatever you do, don't try to
"impress" her, act apologetic for anything about yourself, or otherwise
give away your personal POWER. EVER.
Demonstrate leadership and show AUTHORITY in everything you do. Women
are universally not attracted to passive, ass-kissing, weak men. The
slightly overconfident, cocky man conveys higher social value.
Never give a woman what she asks for, except on your terms. That
includes answers to her questions.
Patronizing comments can also be used to knock a woman off her pedestal
and show her that you aren't intimidated/have higher value:
"You know what? You impress me. You're A-crowd."
"Wow, you're sooo cool. Can I be your friend?"
"You're so cool. I'm gonna adopt you."
"You're so cute, you're like a little puppy"
"You're sooo cute, you're like Sailor Moon without all the martial arts"
5. Showing indifference to her
You must show that you don't NEED her. As for wanting her, keep her
guessing on whether you want her or not. Act like you don't care if she
rejects you or not, act like you could walk away at any moment and not
be bothered.
More importantly, don't push a woman for anything. You must give an
unusually attractive woman SPACE. You can't call her every day, tell her
that you're in love with her two days after you've met her, chase her
around, always ask what she's doing, etc. You must give this special
woman THE GIFT OF MISSING YOU.
If you have a life, stay with it. If you don't have a life, get one.
Don't sit around wondering what she's doing, calling her, telling her
how you "feel", etc. If she wanted another "girlfriend", she'd get one.
So don't act like one. Desirable women want men who are INDEPENDENT, and
who give them SPACE. In fact, if anything, you need to give a hot woman
TOO MUCH space. You want HER to be the one who is calling YOU to figure
out what you're up to.
