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Get Out and Learn To Approach Girls
>I don't expect anything
to happen between us but it was still
if you actually built confidence from saying this joke to a 7, dude ... you need to get a life man.
I just lock up when I even think about
talking to a remotely fine
yep. don't expect this feeling to go away. instead, learn to DEAL with the feeling WHILE you are talking to a girl. Learn to APPROACH even though you secretly are in the AWARE state (the girls will never know it).
3 second rule. smile. enter.
you need to get out. forget trying to get good or get any experience at work or at lunch or and a mall or at a store or on the street. forget parties and get togethers.
CLUBS. That is it. Goto a club. Not a dance club, but an evening cool scene type club. One that conveys your style and the style you are attracted to. Do you want a secretary for a girlfriend? Goto an after work type place.
Don't drink alcohol there. Scope the place. If nothing is there, move on. NEVER WAIT FOR THE GIRLS TO ARRIVE. YOU CAN ALWAYS COME BACK.
Do a professional 4 hour set. approach 12 girls. tape the approaches. tell us the results. an approach is only an approach when you see the girl and you walk up and say hi, followed by an initiation of a topic with her.
emptying a girls trash at work is NOT an APPROACH. You have learned NOTHING here. UNLESS you have fought the urge to NOT APPROACH a girl because of nervousness, you have not challenged your AWARE STATE. You have not worked on your confidence.
>A lot of it is attributed to having a traumatic childhood (you know, being ugly, skinny, picked on, beat up, made fun of, etc...)
Me too I guess. I just don't look back because the past doesn't equal the future. Get over it. Don't blame you past. Be responsible for your PRESENT.
Do you have the GUTS to dress up and spend 4 hours getting out to a club or similar public gathering tonight? When out there, do you have the guts to FIND girls who are WORTHY? Do you have the guts to ENTER with the 32 second rule and with a genuine smile say HI? Do you have the guts to attempt to continue the approaches for all 12 times?
YES. or NO. What is it?
Well? yes or no?
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