Enjoy Yourself in Sarging

author: "toecutter"
date: Thu, 29 Jan 2004 03:28:00 GMT
newsgroup: alt.seduction.fast.general
subject: Re: Thoughts and frustrations with this PU shit (long)

London PUA wrote in message
> when it comes down to it. when it comes to the crunch. The fundamentals. The
> point of this PU shit. It is not to be flashy and superficial, a celebrity. The
> point is actual results (lays) you chat up chicks to get sex, not to be a
> flashy narcissist. Sex is the point. that’s it! Not getting a million numbers!
> Not smiles! Not social proof! not IOI’s and all that stuff. They merely show
> you that your on the right track.

For me, options in women is the point. And options in hot women. Not sex with UG’s. Look, you need to close, I agree. You need sex, and you need practice at all the shit that happens late in the game. But in order to get there with hot women, you need to be that narcissist you shun. I don't mean the guy who spends all day in the gym looking at himself in the mirror. But you have to like yourself. Love yourself. What I mean by that is that you need to take the million numbers that you mention above as validation that you are the shit. "See, look! I am the shit. Look at the numbers I got last night". You need to take the smiles as validation that you are the shit and that you are good looking. You need to take the IOI’s as positive reinforcement. I am going to let you in on a secret: there is only one way that you will be successful with women. That is if you are relaxed and enjoying yourself when you interact with them. If you are uptight, she will mirror your tension as you get into rapport and become uptight too. And because she feels uptight, she will break rapport, lean back and look over her shoulder to less uptight interactions.

If you are not enjoying yourself, and although you did the approach using my opener and my routines and my lines, and saying the same things I might have said ... if you would rather not be there ... I mean if you really have to FORCE yourself to approach, and you are nervous, and you don't know what you are going to say next, and you would rather be somewhere else ... talking to someone else ... but the only reason you are going through this pain is because you want sex. If you are in that head space you are going to loose, man. I love picking up. I would rather be in a pick-up situation than speak to friends. I would rather approach and get there than do almost anything else on offer tonight. I mean I love the interaction. I love speaking to women. I love flirting. I love their shit tests. To me this is fun. I am as happy as a pig in shit when I am mid-sarge. I love covering the angles. I love a girl with a fast mouth who is covering hers. I laugh at her covering her angles. She can see I am enjoying it. She laughs too. We are having a good time, the 2 of us. And I am accusing her of saying that to all the boys to impress them. I am laughing at her shit, enjoying her end of the game. I am fucking loving the interaction with the girl. And it is obvious. She loves it too. That is why she loves it. That is why she loves me. That is why I am memorable. I am the only guy who approached all night that fucking LOVES this shit. You with me here?

Your post is a downer. I can’t be bothered reading and replying to the rest.