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How to Ask a Girl Out
How to ask a girl out for date? If it is a girl you are really
interested in your mind might be filled with doubts and insecurities:
The purpose of any story or 'material' should NOT be to entertain. it should be to 'ATTRACT'. you attract by showing your humanity (your feelings and reactions to life). Here is an example: Gay Scarf Story
(2). ESP Routine
Here let's all play a game. I'm gonna be the puppet master, and you're all going to be my puppets. I'm going to give you the ability to read their minds...
(3). Cocky and Funny
2. Show your interest to the girls. Once you know she is interested in you, it is now SAFE to start showing interest back. This is because now that you have a SOLID FOUNDATION OF ATTRACTION, any interest YOU show is less likely to come off as NEEDY. Instead, you are in a slight position of power and in a position to judge if she is cool enough to hang with you (because she has already decided YOU are cool enough to hang with HER).
How do you know if she's attracted? Indicators of interest, that include asking lots of questions about you, negging back, teasing back, continuous eye contact, touching etc.
However, to fully convey that you are not needy, you need to do two things:
(1). Have her earn your interest (qualify her)
You must make her increasingly invested in the interaction, and then appear to become increasingly attracted to her. So you are attracted by some reasons (her values) other than her looks.
You can use phrases like, "Don't take me for a fool, you're sex appeal means nothing, beauty is common, what else do you have?" and "Stop. Wait, before I even say another word to you, this conversation can't go on, prove to me that you're not boring, I don't have time for boring people, tell me something you've done or give me something cool, show me your not boring."
(2). Be interested in something besides her looks
I only compliment on genuinely cool things. Generally... intangible things, such as a trait of her personality or a direct action she has taken. I will compliment a girl for having a great energy and being fun and cool enough to keep up with me. I will compliment her for having a great sense of fashion. But never on something as superficial and effortless as looks.
3. Build comfort
After you show interest to her, You must attempts to establish rapport, trust, connection and a sense that the interaction is real and genuine. Here you can find how to build comfort..
4.Get her phone number and ask her out for a date.
Once you have gotten her phone (Here
are about how to get her phone number), it's time to ask her out for a
date. You must show it is a chance to go out and have some fun, with no
pressure. It gives her a little mystery about your intentions and your
interest, and that is what a woman wants. Remember: hope + doubt =
GOOD LUCK! ^_^
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