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>A serious question here. I've found women to be pretty
>useless other than for sex. Problem is, if sex isn't THAT
>important to you, is learning all this shit really worth it?
>You can buy and sell a girl in thailand for a dollar. You can
>marry an Indian girl with good values in an arranged
>marriage. You can start going to Church and meet a girl who
>believes in "no sex until marriage" who won’t cheat on
>you. You can marry an ugly

Hey man, this is a pretty prejudice outlook towards chicks actually. People in general can behave in a shallow manner, not just HBs.

HBs are also often reliable and great, just not in the context of guy/girl sexual relationships. Like alot of my female friends cheat and are flakey towards guys they date, but are great to me as a friend.

Either way, I have a tip for you: The stuff that's actually field applied on this site (not the KJ stuff, but the good stuff) is not geared so much towards picking up women with tactics, as it is to help you to become a more attractive person. Some of it is via understanding social intelligence and female psychology and group dynamics, and other parts are towards being more charismatic, sexual, and having interesting things to say. So if you learn this stuff from that angle, you'll improve yourself, and get laid by hot girls to boot.

BTW, its good that you asked an honest question about how you felt. That's a good thing. My feeling is that you posted it, maybe *because* you wanted to be set straight. So use the momentum and see where it leads you. Good luck, man.

By Tyler Durden

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 On 1/22/04 3:21:00 PM, zane wrote:
>Approx. what percentage of the
>ones do you meet one do you
>think would make a great long
>term partner? (when you’ve
>retired from the PU lifestyle)
I don’t think that this question is restricted to PUGs, btw. To me, *most*
girls that I meet would not make good ong term partners.
That’s not because they aren’t great girls. It’s because they have different
thinking patterns than I do. Different ways that they want to live their life.
I’ve always viewed human consciousness somewhat as a collective. Like, when I
do, I don’t really die, any more than one flower in a garden dying when many
are left still alive.
But within that collective consciousness, there are different patterns and
frequencies of thought. When you find someone whose thought patterns match
yours well, *or* do not match but *compliment* yours well, you have now found
something that jives well with you, and that you’ll value having around you for
a long time. It can be a sexual thing, and a very different and richer
experience from just laying a hottie. And from that, you may have a foundation
for something long term.
In the meantime, don’t be closed off to people who you may have a physical
connection with. Obviously.. :)
btw, I personally can usually only take a 9 or 10 for anything long term,
because they are often the more confident girls. So their social outlook and
self esteem matches mine. Also, I have difficulty maintaining sexual
attraction for an extended period of time, for girls with physical flaws. That
could well change though, for the right girl. I really believe that.
I not not a buddhist, btw, but I also believe in alot of surface level
philosophy that they have, just in terms of how to view people and accept them.
I don’t believe in re-incarnation or attaining enlightenment as a means of
raising oneself in the ’samsara’ universe, or anything of that sort. But I
really like their fundamentals of not having desirous attachments, or always
trying to find the bigger better thing, but rather finding value in that which
you have. I think that alot of social problems stem from such flawed social
conditioning, including relationship problems and broken homes.

On 1/20/04 1:24:00 PM, favorito wrote:
>I read Layguide, Maniac’s
>archive and get impression
>that ASF was about SS more.Why
>this board changed to more
>C&F, routines and stories
>stuff and SS is almost
>forgotten?
>Does this hapenned because of
>DYD stronger marketing
>campaign?
I liked your point, btw, about the funny ASF sect mentality with guys going "I
can’t believe he got laid without ASF!" Funny shit, and true.
I guess that DYD is a very natural model of pickup, in the sense that its very
much the same as what the naturals do. So guys will gravitate towards it,
because intuitively it appears to make sense. From what I can tell (and this
is just my speculation), Ross lost most of his audience here because they were
not open minded to his psychic-influence approach. He began offering seminar
on something to the effect of (I’m not sure, I haven’t seen them) ways to
actually psychically summon girls to you, so you wouldn’t have to approach
them, or so that you’d already have a psychic connection with them when you
approach. So because his stuff is very different compared to what guys were
used to, guys may not have perceived it as something that they’d be into.
Flamewars also ensued which some people may have been turned off by.
Also, this is a small chatboard. It’s funny that we think of ASF as a big
chatboard, but really its just a small community of guys. So because guys like
myself posted regularly about more C&F based stuff, the small community began
to practice and make new findings in that direction. 


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